Do You Think My Parents Should Have Done This??
Ok so i woke up this morning to find my daughter out of my bed and in my mothers arms out of my room, my dad had came in here while i was asleep and took Destiny to my mom. I am so very pissed off, for 1 they violated my privacy and for 2 they took my daughter out of here without my permission. Does anyone else feel they have the right to do this?
Because my mom got pissed off at me saying where else would she be! thinking she has this right to take her while i am asleep. She was perfectly fine next to me, she was not crying.
No, that crap pisses me off too. My MIL invited herself to stay with us a week after the baby was born. She came into my room and took him out of his bassinet. i woke up and noticed she took him. I flat out told her “don’t take him from me again.” And she TRIED to tell me “well he was crying for a long time.” He wasn’t. I started locking my bedroom door after that. Make it clear NOW, other wise it will get worse. Now each time I get my son to fall asleep for a nap, I put him in his crib, she goes in and starts to poke at him and wake him up. Then if he doesnt get his nap he gets very fussy and starts fighting his sleep which is no fun for anyone. I get him on a strict schedule and she screws it up each time she comes to visit. THe main thing is getting it straightened out now. It is YOUR baby, not theirs. Dont let anyone tell you different.
——I guess you live with them? I don’t think Id be upset about it. They are obviously helping you raise her. But, if it does bother you just talk to them. If you want her to remain in the crib until you wake up just say so. It sounds like you were asleep, she was awake, and they just wanted to spend time with her so she didnt wake you up.