My father used to tell me i have my pride in the wrong place?
what does this mean and how can i change my situation
What he means is that you should place your pride in the right moment and at the right stand. Like for example, make sure that you are justifiable and accountable in most of your actions or your reasons to be with justice other than being ruled with you pride. Just be humble and try to be reasonable as possible. That’s all I could say.